But the REALLY tricky part is this: Of course I love my baby more than life itself, but I have really important things to do at work. I NEED to be there, and things don't go well when I'm not there. And why is it that the mom stays home from work? Why is her career less important than the dad's? Moms out there, if your husband stays home with the sick kids- then I'd love to know about it.
But especially in the Army, for some reason- the wife is the mommy is the stay at home nurse. It chaps my ass and insults my equality as a woman. And to add salt to the wound, when Bob is asked what he does at work during the day, he ALWAYS says, "Oh, not much. I went to some meetings and did some other stuff. Not a big deal." That's fine. But I DO have big deals I should be working on right now!
But while I'm home, I'm making the best of my womanly stereotype- so if you'll excuse me, I have pumpkin bread to bake, laundry to fold and put away, and toilets that won't clean themselves.
3 comments:
I've thought this same issue over a million times!! Especially every time I get reminded how much I payed in graduate education just so I could stay home : p
Kudos to you for making it out the door!!!
Amen. However, I wouldn't trade being able to stay at home with the kids for the world, but I also didn't have a career I truly loved before Jaxon was born. I do agree though that the guys need to be able to have a more flexible work schedule in order to help out. Seth doesn't usually have a lot to say about work either.
P.S. I LOVEEEE your new blog layout.
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